Anita, you seem SO wise. I have been working on our new place together and we always talked about it, she came out as I was working, but it was just taking TOO long! I get it! It will get done, but we needed to moving things forward! I get it!
In all my crazy emailing, She most certainly knows I want to rent a home in her home town together, I had a ring for her, and wanted to get started on our family together asap. None of it mattered! I don’t know what to do! It hurts so bad being so close, but I know in my heart, I had to feel this, to realize what I had, and I don’t know why.
I know the guy she is seeing is a classmate, recently moved back, knows her family, etc. But I also know he has been around for months, and she still fought for me. It is so heart breaking knowing how bad she wanted it. My only thread of hope is she will realize all our history, and how much we can do together, if we both work hard at this.
Tell me what I can do!?
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 