Dear Anita,

In comparison to my sister I’m the emotionally stronger one now. I wasn’t 5 years ago but now, without a doubt, I am. And I don’t think I’m weak. But I avoid checking that by just tuning out my feelings.  I have endured quite a few  emotionally traumatic experiences and those have made me strong. The intensity with which I feel towards the actions of people who aren’t in my close circle is very less. But being the way I am, is lonely at times. It is what I chose – a no-nonsense life, and I stand by my choice. However, seeing other people, who aren’t as focused on academia as I am, having fun and getting a lot of attention from their significant others makes me a little green. But given the chance to be one of those people, I would not choose that. Its confusing.