Dear abubin:

If, and it is a big if, you and Debbie proceeded to have a life together, you would have to do so much, the English exam is one of many, many things to be done, one of which would be to get employment in a new country. To do all that, for the purpose of living with a woman, you need a solid base, that is, a solid relationship with the woman.

Moving to a new country, starting a life there requires so much. Without a solid base, how can you do that? How will you be able to endure all the distress when the woman you are with is inclined to get angry at you and ..block you (will it be kicking you out of the house… threatening to .. exile you from the new country..?) any time.

To prevent her from being angry at you I suppose you would have to agree with everything she says before she says it. That would be an undesirable life, I am thinking.

anita