Hi anon11,

Why should you lose a BF and $2000? I say plan to go on the trip and don’t say another word about it. The worst that could happen is if he brings another girl on the trip (doubtful but 1/100 possibility). Or you could very well find yourself alone on the trip. June/July is still a few months off. Long enough for both of you to get used to the idea of being single.. or for him to change his mind (again, unlikely, but let’s say 1/25 possibility).

Stand strong and go on your trip that you paid for!

Best,

Inky