Hey Flossy73
Well from what you’ve said, it sounds to me like you have a good guy and you just believe it is “too good to be true.” Which is understandable considering what you have witnessed with your mom. But my advice is don’t let your mom’s past history & experiences determine your future. If he has not given you any ammo to question his judgement, love for you, or the state of your relationship why do so? Cherish him & what you share and there will be no room for you to worry about another woman interfering!Thoughts may arouse which is normal we are human but you must become secure with YOU and what YOU bring to the table.That way even if something was to happen you can stand firm an know u gave your all. But what you are doing is reacting and that will push a man away. Relax, don stop loving him on account of fear but most importantly embrace yourself and don’t forget you are Worthy!You didn’t come this far afterall he is with YOU dont break what you’ve built.When another woman is conveyed to be a threat when she isn’t it only brings tension and encourages curiosity when in fact there probably isn’t what so ever. It sounds like it is in your head mainly and you may just need to get more in tune with yourself and fall in love you more. I hope this helped. Hope everything works out!