Hey Anita
I guess I misquote that. He is a kind and understanding man but when you are honest and vulnerable sometimes ppl use it against you. my fears are that I won’t live up to what is expected, that I will get my heart broken again, and appear unworthy “too young” or not good enough to his mom/family. Ultimately that I will be let down and end up single again. I know that I will eventually have to let my guard down and take a chance if i want a honest relationship but I’m Leary because I have found out somethings that I do not like and worries me. For instance he has a terrible driving record, had a recent ovi so you can imagine all the fines he has etc. I also don’t like he lives with his mother. Although he takes care of her because she is sick is a great provider, i don’t want to be in a predicament that hinders me. I need someone with stability and can help me too. It’s like I don’t want to give up on him because he is a good man but all these uncertainties overwhelm me and I Hey Anita
I guess I misquote that. He is a kind and understanding man but when you are honest and vulnerable sometimes ppl use it against you. my fears are that I won’t live up to what is expected, that I will get my heart broken again, and appear unworthy “too young” or not good enough to his mom/family. Ultimately that I will be let down and end up single again. I know that I will eventually have to let my guard down and take a chance if i want a honest relationship but I’m Leary because I have found out somethings that I do not like and worries me. For instance he has a terrible driving record, had a recent ovi so you can imagine all the fines he has etc. I also don’t like he lives with his mother. Although he takes care of her because she is sick is a great provider, i don’t want to be in a predicament that hinders me. I need someone with stability and can help me too. It’s like I don’t want to give up on him because he is a good man but all these uncertainties overwhelm me and I find myself as i said frozen. I have to get over my anxiety if we are going to get anywhere. But I’ve taken the role of listener, as he vent’s an when it’s time to open up I honestly don’t even know where to start an over thinking wondering if he has interest in my thoughts. it’s ridiculous I can imagine how this sounds, well if yu have any suggestions or other thoughts I’ll check back. Thanks