Hi Strlitt,

I too was in a long term relationship and thought everything was great. And then he suddenly broke up with me because he was bi and wanted to explore that aspect of himself. Which is fine, except that after two years, him bringing up anything related to bisexuality would have been nice!

You have to understand that these guys have been ruminating over what’s been bothering them for months or years. So just because THEY have carefully and thoroughly gone over this secret thing in their minds doesn’t mean WE are not blindsided when they suddenly break up with us!

At least I got an explanation. You got nothing which is even more of a shock.

It could be anything: pressure from the family to marry, finances, someone else, sexuality, cold feet, an anxiety disorder, etc., etc., etc.! We simply don’t know, so don’t let your mind try to fill in the blank and solve the mystery by thinking it was you. It wasn’t you!!

Blessings,

Inky