Dear BlessedInThe603:

You are welcome. How can you possibly fix her, how could you possibly fix her, when she believed the broken part was you, that you needed to fix your problem which she defined as visiting your grandchildren on… her time.

When a person owns an emotional problem and is greatly motivated to heal, to change, it is still a very difficult process, long and difficult. When a person (your ex girlfriend) does not own an emotional problem, a healing process is not even a consideration on the person’s mind. No chance of healing, no chance of fixing.

anita