Ram, This isn’t an ordinary exam, You are appearing for UPSC pre and you need to be well prepared.

If you cannot take a decision which will help your career, it is unlikely that she will see you as strong enough to take firm decisions regarding her and your future.

Everyone likes to be around someone who is happy and confident in themselves, people try to draw their strength from such people. Don’t try to fix your problems through her, I have done that in my life and have faced the consequences.

Anita is absolutely right, you need to stay away from her till your exams at the very least. It is going to be painful and difficult but it is going to bring you positive results. You need to revise so many current affairs, polity, history, current affairs of environmental science, geography, everything.

Being around her makes you obsessive. Partners need to bring out the best in us, if they don’t they are not right for us. In the time you stay away from her, you need to focus on your studies. Love cannot fill a hungry tummy, you need a stable career first!

Also, try figuring out whether you want her because you love her or want her because you like talking to her. But think about it after your pre.

All the best for your prelims Ram, hope to hear from you.