Hi C,

Times were good when you were just getting to know her. Before the killer courses and before you got intimate. With you being fairly distant location wise, it was easier for her to ruminate on why it’s not working. Maybe she was afraid she would never fully have sex again if she made a commitment to you. Maybe her life was going at warp speed and she was changing faster than you were. Maybe you said something, didn’t say something, did something, didn’t do something. We will never REALLY know, as I suspect she’s not being totally honest (?)

At any rate, consider it a blessing. You will no longer be blown off. You are free! You have enough to deal with, just taking care of yourself. You don’t need this in your life. You should never try to convince someone why you should be together, or even to seek “closure” whatever that is. She ended a nice relationship. She blew it!

Best,

Inky