Hi Mathilde-S,

We tend to think the other person operates the same as US. If YOU didn’t text for days or offer to pick someone up from the airport, etc. it would be a red flag to the other person about YOUR commitment to them. Now, your BF is your opposite. He reads a bit like Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory. He is either clueless, uncaring, or has a touch of Aspergers. Who knows? I for one don’t pick up on him being hurtful on purpose.

Good Luck,

Inky