Mathild-S.

We assume that just because we SAY we love each other then our Love Languages match and we know how to communicate HOW we love each other.  Check out the Five Languages of Love and see how each of you express love.

We also EXPECT our romantic partner to automatically KNOW what they SHOULD do IF they love us.  NOT!  It’s about communicating EXPLICITLY about what we want and how we want it and when we want it.

Check out Non-Violent Communication techniques and process by Marshall Rosenberg on how we communicate based on our feelings, needs and behavior specific requests.

Mark