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Hi Chantal,
I think it is not unusual and perfectly normal to be emotionally dependent on someone we are in llove with. Never I met in my whole life a person in love who would feel neutral while the feeling is not reciprocated. As well as wolking away from the person we are attached to is extremely difficult for everyone. So please, don’t be harsh on yourself.
Now, if your mind is convinced he is not good for you and the relationship as it is is not satisfiying you, the it is better to walk away no matter how hard it is.
You will be heartbroken for a while. It is anavoidable. But think about it as a short term pain vs long term benefits. It will help you.
You will see your self esteem and self worth grow as you look back and appreciate the decision you made. It will not happen overnight, but it will.