Yes knowing what kind of a person he is now if  im to get married  to him someday he will always keep blaming me if we had to go thru any hardships. Coz when i last met him he did agree to convince his parents n stop that proposal at that point he told me. ‘ u re important to me and i can marry u but i have to leave my family n we should leave the country but u have to look into all financial matters coz i cant afford to do anything. I was shocked to hear that. If he really wanted me he could have told lets work out something n go abroad. But those words were very hurtful. I actually can afford to work out something for both of us coz im quite stable and i did have a plan if he says yes to me. But his response was very hurtful.