Hi Sierra,
I would break up with him based on you not being that into him alone.
The emotional abuse is just the nail in his coffin.
Break up with him. Tell him he did it to himself. YOU should give yourself a nice new boyfriend for Christmas! (If you’re into someone.)
Sometimes you’re a Life Lesson to other people.
Meanwhile, enjoy your studies and independence!
Best,
Inky
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