Thank you for the responses anita, they really are helping. And I like those words, I may try those.
what I am struggling with though is not understanding why she can’t provide closure, and why we couldn’t just go back to being friends. We were best friends for 5 years before we started dating. Is she still feeling raw, or is it possible she isn’t over me and can’t handle those feelings yet and just needs time? Does she miss me or care at all?
and based on what I’ve said, do you think there’s a chance for us? I’m working on making myself my best self. I’ve grown in this time apart, and I know what I would need to do. I know distance makes the heart grow fonder, and it has in my case, but has it for her?
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 