Dear iamzen:

If your long distance relationship is not going to change soon, maybe you should end it so to avail yourself to a short distance relationship.

Regarding this woman, “why are my  feelings so strong for this person”- the answer could be something as simple as why I feel so strongly about melted  chocolate- I had wonderful experiences eating melted or melting  chocolate, the taste, the texture, it  felt so   good. So ever since   I feel strongly  about  melted chocolate, have a desire  for it. I know  it  is  fattening, but I still want it.

anita