Dear SbInvincible:

You’ve known your girlfriend for 15 years since the two of you were kids, spending a lot  of time together, involved in each other’s lives. You used to be the active part of the two, pushing  yourself and her “for personal and professional development. I always was there for her and continuously strived to improve our live quality and ensured that we both live the best life possible”.

I italicized the words above because it seems to me that you had the two of you in mind  as one item, a couple, partners-in-life and pushed for the two of  you improving your lives as a team, being a team first.

Next, she got a good job you helped her get, doing well there, but the team concept is not there, her priority is her job first, not the team. Did I understand correctly? If I did, in what ways was she a team with you before, and no longer is, other than being  gone most of the day?

Also, in what ways have you been “demanding for her time”, specifically?

anita