Dear Sonalika:

So the plan is that the following has to happen before you move to his city and marry him:

1. You have to  trust him again.

2. He has  to  start and establish a good job in his  city.

Is he still staying with you, currently?

What do you need to trust him again: for him to allow you to check his phone at any time, to give you access to his email, passwords  and such.. for you to communicate with  his ex? Or do you need to live with  him first, before marriage?

anita