Hi Anita

I haven’t yet worked out his true level of maturity. He has a young daughter and I believe this has matured him.  I laid my cards our early doors and he told me he is not emotionally available, the last two women tried to change his mind and failed. I do not want emotionally unavailable. I would love for him to change his mind. I don’t want to make him. Seems to me that the best course of action atm is to pull back and let him be. He has serious health issues, its sensible for him to focus on his health and his daughter. I believe in love and its healing powers. I believe he has made a practical decision to deal with an emotionally challenging time and this demonstrates maturity. Its sad but my be best for now. Your view is welcomed as always.