Dear Jesus:

You came to the conclusion that were toxic to your ex girlfriend and the one before her based on the following evidence (I will quote you and in parentheses ask you questions about each item):

1. “invading her space” (how, how often?)

2. “withholding my love for her” (in what ways, and with what intent?)

3. “using the break up threat” (you didn’t want a break up, you just wanted to scare her? What did you say to her at those times and what was her responses?

4. “not taking her seriously when she really needed my help” (an example or two?)

5. “saying I don’t want to marry” (did you want to marry her? Did she pressure you to marry her?)

6. “she thinks I’m using it to guilt trip her” (is what she thinks correct?)

And another question: how did she blow up when she did blow up (“she doesn’t know how to release her feelings sometimes and lets things boil up inside her till she blows up”)?

anita