Hey, Miss. In hindsight I felt I may have seemed a bit condescending. It wasn’t my intention, so let me try this again..

The reason you get rejected is most likely not a simple reason, but something that is caused by countless factors, many of them being things that you can’t control.

You should try to find someone who mentors you. The reason you get your requests rejected *could* be something that is within your control. Friends can be reassuring and encouraging (which is why they can be valuable), but they are most often not honest about critique.

Your transcendent abilities definitely seems like a big strength to have in your work. It’s important for professionals to reach a state of mind where they are detached from their work and their careers.