Dear Mary:

I think he owes you an honest conversation, or a few conversations where the two of you sit together, maybe in a quiet coffee shop and talk. Don’t rely on what a friend told you about your hookup/boyfriend’s state of mind and heart. You should get the information from the man himself!

So, yes, one long conversation or better, a series of conversations. He owes you the information you need so to understand what happened and what may happen, if anything at all. You need clarity before you figure out what to do- and not to do- next.

anita