Dear sadman11:

In your first thread you wrote regarding your girlfriend: “I find myself insecure and accusing my girlfriend of cheating and arguing with her about the past all the time”-

I assumed at the time I read your first thread, before I read your second thread, that you were arguing with her about her past before she met you, or before she started dating you.

When I read your second thread I found out that you were arguing with her about her past after you started dating, the fact that she had sex with her ex boyfriend.

Most recently I found out that she still sees the same young man in the home where she lives with her mother, visiting sometimes (“aren’t always visiting”, which means sometimes they visit, doesn’t it?)

Your girlfriend then has an ex boyfriend who is still in her life and not long ago, while being your girlfriend, she had sex with him.

Am I understanding it correctly at this point, and if I do, do you see a problem here?

anita