I question why you would want to be in a relationship where boundaries are not respected. I’m not talking about your partner. I’m speaking on your end.

Before anything else, I would ask myself this: Why would I want to be in a relationship where I’m searching through the other person’s texts? Why would I want to be in a relationship where each person may not feel free to hang out with friends?

Those are the real questions you should be considering before any other.