Dear Hanna:

I know the “it feels so real” experience. It is quite common, really, that people feel something that is not happening. It feels so true, so convincing,

If we can find evidence for or against what we suspect/ feel  is true, that is most helpful.

I need to be away from the computer in ten minutes and will be back in about seventeen hours. I want to re-read your post where you answered a question I asked you and I would  like to read, if you are willing to share, about a betrayal that you suffered as a child by a parent/s, if you are willing and able to think about  that and share.

I understand that you might delete this thread by the time I return. I hope not, I don’t see any way this thread can harm you. This site is  not that popular plus, make sure that you don’t provide  identifying information such as names of people and places, how old you are.. without identifying information, how can this thread hurt you, I don’t think it can.

Be back in seventeen hours.

anita