Dear Anita,

I understand what you are trying to convey. I agree with it.
How can I make my expectations minimal? The need for validation, acceptance and reciprocation from her hurts me sometimes. Yes, I ask for help and share my problems, my dark days with her and she tries her best to be in there for me. I also try to be there for her everytime she needs someone to talk to.

I also need help on how to introduce my romantic feelings for her in this bond we share.