Dear Gautam:

What if you ask her to be your girlfriend, ask her is she would like to be your girlfriend and listen to her response. If her response is not clear, ask for clarification: what do you mean by (this or that), look for the answers to the questions in your head by asking her questions and listening to her answers.

If you would like to read what I think of any particular answer she gives you, post about it and I will be glad to give you my understanding.

anita