Hi TTK,

I think you should move away from him.

Of course, this will exacerbate his feelings that you are cheating on him.

But firstly, you’ve been together for eight years, long enough to snipe at each other. Who needs that?

Number two, he is not your husband, so technically you ARE a single woman (hint: he can change that if you say yes).

Lastly, you have a toddler. Who carries on a sordid affair with a toddler in tow? Bonus for him! She’s getting to that unfiltered age where she can babble about the nice uncles that come around during nap time.

I think the relationship has run its course and you need to be co-parents.

Best,

Inky