Dear Princess:

It is your right to not let a man use your body for his sexual needs. You are not hurting him for depriving him from using your body. Let’s say ten men are interested in having sex with you, should you have sex with all ten so that none of the ten men feels hurt, no one feels left out?

You wrote that he told you that he “is ready to tell his Cousins.. and Family about me”- how did that come about, did you ask him to tell his cousins or did he say it on his own initiative, and if he did say it on his own initiative, what did he say just before and after he mentioned telling his cousins/ family-

– and what did he say that he will tell them?

anita