Dear Anita ,

thank you again for your post .

I asked him about future plan from him because i wasnt really sure what he wants . He was sAying that we will take a apartment and live togather but i dint hear anything about doing marraige. And i am saying this because he is very religious person .and for a person like him marraige should be first priority not sex  or living togather .as i was in living relationship with his friend..i doubted at that point what he really wants . Does he only want to live with me for enjoyment or any intention of legally .

ya you are right Anita .i should nt ask a boy about our future plan but after my break up i became very choosy and doesn’t want to invest mz pure emotions on wrong guy so his intentions  were in my mind like puzzle . And from first day i was thinking that he just want to use me . Asking him about our future  plan was too know what he is really thinking without investing more time or energy with a wrong person .

Maybbe i have trust issues now or may be i just became more aware before dating or investing my emotions .