To Jay

Yes that makes sense. I think that’s a good idea, I have cooked a few meals recently, she was very controlling about it but she has started to ease of a little. I think that maybe her seeing me putting more effort into learning how to cook would allow her to relax more when I’m in the kitchen rather then trying to control the situation.

My mum would cope okay with me leaving but she would defiantly worry about me being safe and being lonely, however when my brother moved out but was still living in the same country as us, she would often drop meals of to him as she was worried, what he was eating. Also, my parents are still very controlling with things such as ambulance insurance or car insurance extra. I understand that they know how it operates but I think it’s something I should be in control of.

Jess