Hi Alisha,

I will tell you the magic words to say to him. Are you ready? Is he sitting down?

The magic words are:

“I’ve met someone.”

Say them inexplicably and out of the blue. Blind side him. His only clue that something is different is that you will have inexplicably, out of the blue stopped sleeping with him exactly three weeks before the announcement.

He will be thunderstruck. He will demand to know who it is. Be pensively silent. Say you don’t want to ruin it.

He will think it must be true. You haven’t slept with him in three weeks! Why would it not be true?? When he asked you your answer was “I need to get myself together”. (What he said to you!)

If this doesn’t jump start him, you don’t want this kind of clueless man in your life.

Hint: Go on several dates so you can truthfully say you’ve met someone.

Best,

Inky