Dear Gracie:

You are welcome.

You wrote: “I never did have sex with him but he would try to initiate things”- I don’t need the details of what sexual activity did take place between the two of you, if any and I imagine it would be uncomfortable for you to share such. I don’t need any such information. My comment is then a general one:

I have heard and read from women stating that they did not have sex with a man while they did have a variety of sexual activities, only not the sexual intercourse part. I heard men say something similar as well, (“I did not have sex with that woman” comes to mind, a sentence said by a very famous man long ago).

My suggestion regarding the 3-month-no-sex-rule applies to all sexual activities, not just the sexual intercourse activity.

anita