Dear Anita. Thank you for your reply, you are right i was the one who was wrong by ignoring red flags

About him being paid, he said he will be paid on the 30 of April so i will come on the first of May, so on the 30th he was supposed to send me money for transport but he didn’t answer his phone when i called.

I then sent him a message on WhatsApp saying hello, what time are you gonna send the money coz its already late, he read and didn’t reply, i sent him another text asking him if the money is not enough i will understand, since its hard because it will be me and my son, and baby needs a lot of things, so he replied no, its not that its just that the money didn’t go in , and i replied OK, then the conversation ended.

Yesterday he didn’t even text me, i called him he didn’t answer or even get back to me , so i sent him text on WhatsApp saying “you said enough today” he logged in and read it and even now he never replied.