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Inky
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Hi Dan,

Since she works at the office, and if she’s as hot as you say…

Proceed with caution.

What happens with attractive girls is they’re nice to everyone (lots of social practice), and her being friendly could be perceived as interest.

You just don’t want her to say “no” (as gentle as it would be) and have to see her at your office 40 hours a weeks for literally years.  And then see her date some other guy in or out of the office. Be engaged. Get a wedding invitation. Pictures of babies on her desk.

I’m not saying not to do it. I’m saying Manage your Expectations.

Being a Bummer Today,

Inky