Dear Maria:

You made mistakes but will you learn from the mistakes you know you made?

When people make mistakes and the consequences are big, we do feel “truly horrible”. What happens next, some people try to forget that they made mistakes in the effort to no longer feel horrible.. then make the same mistakes and feel horrible all over again-

other people (and it may be you) feel horrible, figure out what there is to learn from these mistakes, correct their behavior and proceed to live a more functional life, one with less mistakes (and not the same ones!)

Where do you go from here?

anita