Dear Cali Chica:

I am sure you are extroverted, a “people person”, no doubt. Lots of you being a people person has  been compulsive, which is what fueled SCC. You removed 50% of your friends from your life in the last year and you cut down on the compulsive element a whole lot, well done!

Continue to remove the compulsion element/ the SCC the role, add  pacing yourself when opening up to people/ evaluate a person before proceeding to open up more, and you will minimize getting hurt.

(Lots of extroverted people are anxious people who fear being alone because they feel profoundly anxious when alone. What motivates an extroverted person’s social behavior is important)

anita