Dear Lindsey:

I think a meeting with a divorce mediator over finances will drain anyone!

But do  stick to your guns because the financial arrangement that will be decided in these couple of sessions will have significant consequences ($ per month) for many months and years. Let the mediator do her job for the benefit of you and your children.

“when things are calm sometimes I look for chaos”- we look for chaos outside to fit with the chaos inside. This is why I used to love horror/ suspense movies, the chaos outside (on the movie screen) distracted me from the chaos inside, the overthinking and distress.

Better though, lower the chaos inside and look for calm outside to fit with the calm inside.

Easier said (typed) then done, isn’t it?

anita