Dear Connie:

You asked in your recent post: “Is  it me not good enough?”- I didn’t detect anything on this thread to  indicate that your behavior wasn’t good enough.

On the other hand, July 2017, in the context of the relationship you had then, your behavior  was not good enough. I am referring to this behavior you shared about at that time: “I feel bad for not being able to control my temper. When I am really upset I tend to be verbally abusive.. I tend to get verbally abusive when I am upset.. It’s just when I am angry, I can’t control whatever comes out  of my mouth”-

– if this is still the case, and if you verbally abused this man as well, then your behavior was definitely.. bad.

anita