Dear cali sister:

With your PhD, with your education, you can get certified to get a good job anywhere in the U.S (and beyond, I bet)- so it is not a totally crazy idea if you do move to where your sister and brother in law are moving, after they settle. I know the relationship between the two of you has improved a lot and your sister does love you, as well as your brother in law. It will be okay, you will see! Enjoy nyc as long as you do get to live there!!!

No need to apologize to me for feeling any which way- unless you curse me of course, or something clearly aggressive- but  no need to apologize otherwise, for ignoring parts of my posts (who doesn’t???) or being all over the place.

anita