Hi Thomas,

I agree, the WORST thing you can do is keep messaging him, sending videos, texting, ANY contact.

People really can pick up on vibes. He felt strong ones coming from you and it made his skin crawl. Even if you deny it. Even if YOU felt nothing, that’s not the point. HE’S the one creeped out.

We adults hate being “hunted”, “hounded”, oppressed through texts/calls/etc.

And get this: Silence IS an answer.

Your BEST hope is to treat him like a stranger, someone you’ve never met. Have so much time pass that HE wonders if HE’S the one who’s “crazy” and overreacted. Then if HE approaches you, be formal, nice and polite. “How are you?” “Good!” “What’s gong on?” “Not much, how are you? Lot of rain lately.”

Good Luck!

Inky