Hi Jamie,

My mature advice Part One would be to realize that you’re not in a real relationship at all. If you’re doing all the work, and he gets pissed off and does nothing, then DROP THE ROPE.

You did at the club, but in a huffy way. And by the way, him leaving you to find your own ride: That’s a deal breaker in my book. I don’t care if we live in the world of Uber. And he grabbed your arm and swore at you?

My immature advice would be to date other people and see if he notices.

My mature advice Part Two would be to text him and write: “It’s not working. Good luck on your job and apartment search. I wish you well.”

Best,

Inky