Dear loveandkisseszaphod:

You are welcome.

“he has a more difficult life then mine…  he was taking care of his mother who was going through a heavy cancer treatment.. He then lost his mother. He is in debt” – I feel empathy for him but it doesn’t change the basic requirement of decency. He should not have left you with a urine soaked mattress and tell you “sh** (or pee, really) happens”.

“I had no relations with any man for over 6-7 years”.. “I just needed someone that I felt comfortable with and he was available and easygoing”- understandable. But it is not too much to ask for available, easygoing, and exercising minimal, basic personal responsibility.

Post again anytime.

anita