Dear blkhwkdwn1:

I asked for a record of texts and calls because I was never clear about what is going on. I always had the feeling that you are not clear with her about what you want, that sometimes you tell her what you want from her/ the friendship,  but later you go back on your word and tell her something contradictory (ex., you told her to forget the loan you gave her and then it happens that she paid you some of it back). I really am at a loss because I don’t have a picture of the communication between the two of you.

If you were consistently clear with her, that you want to see her and she kept telling you that she is busy,  and then she works near where you live and still says she is too busy to see you, well that is not a pretty picture of a friendship, that’s for sure.

But like I just wrote, I don’t know!

anita