Also Valora-

He never said that he was unhappy. We would come back together after an argument, talk it out, and move on. He did, however, mention once that things would not work out if the issue continued. This did upset me because I felt as if I was being bullied into silence. It made me feel as if bringing up an issue that he did not like would threaten the entire relationship. I expressed my concern to him and we had a constructive discussion about it. He seemed to understand where I was coming from and agreed that he was being harsh.