Dear T23:

I don’t know if it will help, for me to ask you questions for the purpose of figuring out what is happening with her, but if you think it may help you can answer the following (your choice to answer or not, of course):

You wrote that the two  of you were together for 15 years and married for three years, and that you have a child who is seven years old, and you had a child who was six days old.

1. How is it that you and her were not married during 12 years of relationship and during the first four years of you child’s life?

2. How long ago did your other child die and how did she and you react to that tragedy?

anita