Dear Felix:

Let’s look at the question you asked: “Do you think she’ll be disgusted/ turned off when we meet.. or do you think she’ll feel like nothing happened?”-

-no one can answer this question but her if and when she meets you.

I am not her. I can’t tell how she will feel meeting you any more than she can tell how I will feel when I meet someone she doesn’t know later today.

“I’m asking the same question to see if most people answer the same question then it’s likely to be that answer”-

– back to your question, let’s say most people answer you that she will “feel like nothing happened”. Then you meet her and she feels like something did happen. The answer of most people is of no importance to you, is it?

When you have a question, think: whose answer do you need, whose answer will make a practical difference for you?

anita