Dear Felix:

I am pleased and glad to read the following: “I used to hate myself for having a short height but right now I have matured and accepted who I am and I feel grateful for it”.

I will add this: the process of maturing and accepting oneself takes time, what you expressed above is the beginning of this process. Thoughts and feelings from before will return, so remind yourself of your intent to mature and accept who you are!

And regarding: “some reason for me accepting myself is because of this website and I’m thankful for anyone who have replied me before”- you are welcome.

Regarding your announcement that you are done looking for love- great idea, to take a break (for how long it lasts) from looking for a girlfriend, excellent idea- relax in this break. Relaxing (as opposed to being anxious, desperate, distressed) will lead you to more mental clarity and behaviors that will benefit you.

anita