Hi Anita,

That makes lots of sense to me and allows me to see my fears and anxieties in a new light.

My partner is very generous and giving. One of the traits I love the most which he possesses is his generosity. He doesn’t mind putting others before himself, and doesn’t do this for prides sake either. He is genuinely a kind and loving person who likes to see the good in all people.

I would get annoyed to think of my partner spending money on Steve, though.

Also, how do you suggest I conquer this fear? It does make sense. And if I’m honest, the thought of my partner simply even being friends with Steve scares me. I know it shouldn’t, and I recognise it’s stupid that it does because I know within me, nothing would ever become of it… He is very loyal. But, I can’t shake the fear.

Thanks again.

Sincerely,

kiwiboy0897